I see a lot of folks (and a lot of newbies) asking for advice and various questions. I am on a plane with a lot of time to kill, so I have compiled a list of 10 tips. I hope they help all – new and experienced alike…
- [newbies] Once led to the room, take your time undressing. Don’t just strip and get on the table right away. Your aim is to be fully nude and standing when your masseuse returns so she see you. Act like you are fiddling with your watch or shoes or something. Judge her reaction. If she recoils and jumps back out of the room, that is a bad sign. If she comes on in and preps the table, that is a good sign. Never get on a table and cover yourself up with anything. If you do lie down, lie face down with no cover and make sure your junk is exposed and “pointing south.”
- [newbies] If she covers you with a towel sheet or towel, don’t panic. Let her get started with the “warm up”. At some point she will pull the covering down to expose your back and begin an oil massage. At this point, you do not want it covering your ass, so pull it down below your butt cheeks. Alternatively, tell her you are hot and ask that it be removed completely. If she resists, that is a bad sign. If she pulls away, that is a good sign. Regardless, try to at the very least expose your ass.
- [newbies] Anytime her hands are on or near your butt cheeks, let her know you like them there. Raise your ass slightly, wiggle it a bit, moan slightly and say “yes, that feels nice” or “mmmm, I like that”. Let her know where to go.
- [newbies] If she is around your ass or hamstings, reach down underneath you and make damn sure your balls and dick are “pointing south” and they are exposed. Let her know they need attention. I have even used my index finger to tap my balls, as if to say “here”. Usually they will follow and start teasing and grazing them. Encourage them from there…
- [newbies] On the flip , tell her you need to relax more. If she covers you, ask if you can go without. If she says no and insists on covering you, it’s not a good sign, but you can still ask, “Can you massage here?” while either pointing to or grabbing your junk. I have had therapists cover me and still provide service under the sheet.
- [advanced] If you know what you want, when you are led into the room, disrobe quickly and just lie face up (sunny-side up) on the table, with no covering. When she comes in she may ask if you want a massage, just say “just a light massage please, and then help me relax”. I only do this if I am in for a 30-minute session. And it’s great in the summer, just tell her you are too hot for any covering.
- [advanced] Ask your therapist if you can massage her. Many will accept. Remember, they are on their feet all day, and they use their arms all day. Give her a good foot and leg massage, and then her forearms and hands and then shoulders. She will love it. Once complete, start on her ass and be more sensual, ask if you can unhook her bra or take off her shirt. See if you can remove her pants. Keep going until she says “no” or she is naked. Respect boundaries – don’t be a dick. I visit a girl in one city who will not expose herself at all when giving me a HE (too shy… too shy…) but she will let me get her totally naked on the table for a massage and she LOVES it when I ask if I can massage her. I get a 90 min massage and spend 45 minutes on her massage…
- [advanced] If the vibe is right and you anticipate regular visits, a $10 tip to the mamasan let’s her know you are a player, She will set respond in kind. Ask her name and remember when you come back.
- [last resort for all] If the HE is not going to happen, you may have to self-service. Ask if she can massage your balls – I know one girl who will not give HE but she will give a very sensual ball massage while I SS (she will take her top off too, just no HE). Also, I once had a therapist refuse me an HE, so I had to self-service. As I got my cock rock hard I gripped my cock and asked “just here????” and pointed to my cock head. She rubbed my cock head with her index finger and warm oil for about 10 minutes! It was excruciating, but one of the best endings I’ve had! She laughed and giggled the entire time, but damn it was nice. So never give up! Not until the bitter end!
- [all] Always pay for your massage in cash – AMPs hate cards and their fees and traceability.
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